Law of Attraction Mistakes

Are you making any of these 7 common law of attraction mistakes? While these aren’t the only mistakes you can make, they are the most common ones that can keep you from truly manifesting the life you want.

In order to fully tap into your power to manifest or create that life you really want, you have to be sure that you are living and acting in alignment with the laws of the universe. If you are feeling stuck at any point in the process, it is probably because you are struggling with one or more of these 7 law of attraction mistakes:

1. Not being consistent – Being consistent in your efforts is the number one thing that you can do to improve your results as you begin applying the principles in the law of attraction. This means developing new habits and new ways of looking at your life. Success will come from the small daily repetitions of the thoughts and actions that you decide are worth taking. Just as exercising only when you ‘feel good’ will never produce excellent health, working on your dreams only when you have time or when you feel good will never change your life. The law of attraction is at work in your life all day, every day. The more consistent you are in what you do, the better the results you get will be.
2. Not understanding the law of attraction - This is a big one too. Unless you fully understand the principles that make up the law of attraction you will always find yourself working harder to create change in your life than is necessary. There is no substitution for knowledge. The more you learn about how life works, the easier it will become for you to move your life in the direction of your desire. Read and study how to apply these principles in your daily life.
3. Not believing - Your belief is an important aspect of your success and happiness. As Henry Ford said, “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t… you are right!” This not only applies the your life in general, but to your beliefs about yourself and your own abilities. If you don’t believe you can change, then you will create situations that make it difficult to change. Check your beliefs!
   
4. Not knowing what you want – Don’t be wishy-washy about your desires. Nothing fuels change more than a crystal clear vision of what you want your life to look and feel like. It is easy to be overwhelmed by the choices that are available to you. It can be hard to choose. But until you decide exactly what you want, you will continue to feel like you are stuck. To attract what you want, you must know what you want.
5. Fear of change – Even though you really, really want something, you might be afraid of the changes that will occur in your life when you get that thing you want. Change is uncomfortable – especially when you don’t do it often. But until you step out of your fear, you will only attract more fear into your life, which in turn makes it harder to change. Embrace change and you will unlock the law of attraction in your life.
6. Not taking action – Manifesting your desires always takes action on your part to complete. Sitting on your couch ‘wishing’ for a better life rarely works. The law of attraction governs the whole you – your mental, spiritual, and physical selves and requires all of you to be aligned with the things you say you want. Taking action toward your desires is the final step that aligns you with your thoughts and beliefs about those desires.
7. Trying to use the law of attraction to change other people – This never works and the only thing it does is bring more frustration into your own life. Yes, you can influence other people or manipulate them into doing something or acting in a certain way, but you aren’t really changing them. The only person you have the absolute power to change is yourself. But surprisingly, when you change, the people around you will respond to that change. You may inspire or motivate them to seek some of their dreams as well.

Where are you struggling with the law of attraction? Which of these areas has been an issue for you? Share your comments below and let us know how you overcame your challenges.

How to understand the law of attraction.

Understanding the Law of Attraction

The law of attraction is a powerful concept that can help you radically change your life, but learning how to apply it and actually attract your desires can be challenging.

There is a lot of conflicting advice out there, some of which can be downright misleading.  Here is an easy way to get exactly what you want in life by applying this universal law.

The law of attraction is about two things: Your perspective and your objective.

Your Perspective
Your perspective is the way that you look at the world around you, it is about your experience. But here is a funny thing about your perspective – it can change. More importantly, YOU can change it to suit your needs. You see, no two people have the same experience, even if they walk side by side down a street. One person may notice one thing and the other may notice something entirely different.

What you see depends upon many things – your mood, your interests, what has been going on around you and in your life recently, even the opinions of your friends and family… lots of things affect the way you look at the world.

One of the basic building blocks of the law of attraction is that you must change your perspective, you must change the way that you look at the world, so that what you see matches what you want. This isn’t as hard as it sounds. What it means is that you have to stop looking at all the things standing between where you are now and where you want to be, and start looking at the opportunities

The key thing to remember here is that your perspective is flexible and can change.

Your Objective
Your objective is the thing that you want, or your desires. You have to be really, really specific about what you want in order to get the results that will bring you there.  If you have fuzzy goals, you will get fuzzy results. You also have to be clear about the reasons ‘why’ you want to achieve each particular goal on your list.

Be sure that you want your goals for yourself and not to please someone else. Your true attraction power or manifesting ability lies in your passion to change your life. The more passionate you are, the better. Nothing dilutes your ability to attract things into your life more than going after a goal that you don’t really want.

Getting What You Want
Master these two things, your perspective and your objective, and your life will change. If you are clear about them, you will begin to understand the law of attraction and how it will help you get exactly what you want in your life.

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10 Books about personal success that can change your life.

Read any good books lately?

Here are 10 books about personal success and growth that you absolutely must read in 2011. Any one of these books can change your life… if you let it. Any one of these books can help you to see life in a new way, with a new perspective.

The ten books on this list create a virtual university of success and are full of ideas and concepts that will help you manifest your desires and shape your life.

But these books alone won’t change your life – only you can do that.

The old saying, “Knowledge is power,” is only half true, because knowledge alone won’t change your life. It is the application of the knowledge you acquire that transforms you and lifts you to the next level of success.

In other words, it is what you do after you read that great book that matters. So go ahead, pick one of the personal success books from the list below and READ it. Then go out and begin applying what you just learned.

10 Books about Personal Success and Growth

Note: This list is in no particular order. They are all powerful books and they all are just waiting for you to explore and enjoy and IMPLEMENT!

1. “The Success Principles – How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be” by Jack Canfield. Containing a powerful collection of success principles, and written in Jack’s friendly and witty style, this book definitely deserves a spot in your personal success library.

2. “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill. The classic work that everyone refers to, but few have actually read. Do yourself a favor and read this book. Yes, the writing is a little dated and some of the examples Mr. Hill uses don’t really fit modern society, but the core teachings of this book have endured for decades.

3. “Goals” by Brian Tracy. Probably the definitive book on goals and goal setting. Anything and everything you need to know about goals and how to achieve them.

4. “The Power of Intention” by Dr. Wayne Dyer. In this best-selling book, which was also a PBS television special, Dr Dyer explores the power that your intention has on every aspect of your life and your well-being.

5. “Who Moved My Cheese?” by Spencer Johnson. An inspiring little book about the inevitability of change and the benefits of learning to adapt. A small book with a big lesson.

6. “Awaken the Giant Within” By Anthony Robbins. Reaching your true potential and defining your life are the hallmarks of Anthony Robbins, and ‘Awaken the Giant Within’ will do just that and more.

7. “Ask and It Is Given” by Esther and Jerry Hicks. Esther Hicks and the teachings of Abraham are hands down the best source to learn about the power of the law of attraction. Some people are put off by Esther and Abraham, but I say, don’t confuse the message with the messenger.

8. “The Power of Now” by Eckhart Tolle. Another ‘must read’ book for anyone who is serious about making changes in their life. Learning to live in the present moment frees you from so many of your challenges and obstacles, because many of your struggles really exist only in your past or your future. When you understand the power of now, you gain new insights into your path and your life.

9. “Loving What Is” by Byron Katie. Who would you be without your story? So much of your life is just a story, its not really true, its just something you made up.  When you are able to see the truth about the stories you tell yourself you will see your life in a whole new light.

10. “See You at the Top” by Zig Ziglar. When it comes to motivation, Zig Ziglar is the king. He will have you fired up and ready to succeed by the time you finish this book. In fact, you’ll wonder why you waited so long to feel so good about yourself!

There you have it! A reading list for 2011 that will give you all the tools you need to explode your results this year. Just pick one and get started. Don’t put it off, don’t wait until you get around to it.

Remember, it is not about how big or impressive your list of books to read is, it is about what you have learned and what you have become!

So get out there and become your dream!

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

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The law of attraction is a two-way street!

You don’t have to look far to see a perfect example of how the law of attraction works – all you need to do is to take a look around your life right now!

When you do, you will see exactly what you have been manifesting up to this point. The good, the bad, and the ugly.

If you are anything like I was, you are quick to take the credit for manifesting the ‘good’ stuff in your life, and you are probably just as quick to avoid taking responsibility for those parts of your life that you don’t like.

This is a deadly trap, and one that snares a lot of people who begin applying the law of attraction in their lives. The truth is that the law of attraction is a two-way street. You create everything in your life by placing and holding your attention upon it. When you get good results you are happy and accept the fact that you created this result. But when you get results that are less than good, or less than you expected, you are unhappy, and you allow your ego to step in and take control for a moment. You tell yourself, “This couldn’t be because of something I did, it must be the fault of ______.” And you blame something outside of yourself.

Now, it is true that sometimes things happen out there in the world that seem beyond your control, but even when that is the case, it is your reaction to that event that either allows you to grow or to remain stuck. In either case you attract what you focus on.

Don’t be fooled into thinking that the law of attraction is only about getting good results. It is not. It is only about getting results. Period.

In the town called DESIRE, YOU determine the results you get by deciding which side of the law of attraction street you want to walk down. You can choose one side and walk toward all those things you want to create and manifest in your life… or you can walk down the other side and stay focused on your problems and keep blaming the world for your hardships… and keep manifesting more of the same.

Me? I will be on the side heading toward my dreams, only I won’t be walking, I’ll be running!

Which side of the law of attraction street will you choose?

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

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Are you ready to apply the law of attraction?

Want to know the secret of the law of attraction?

Of course you do! We all love secrets. We love the mystery, we love the thrill of having information that not everyone else has. It makes us feel special. It makes us feel like we are tapped into a special group of people who are somehow different… or even better than everyone else.

If you have seen or read The Secret, you might have noticed the claim that this secret knowledge of the law of attraction has been kept secret for hundreds of years and that only a select few have been allowed to access powerful way to manifest your desires.

Nothing could be further from the truth!

When it comes to success and the law of attraction, the truth is that there really is no ‘secret’. There is no hidden knowledge.

The keys to success, the keys to understanding and applying these ideas have always been here just waiting for you to step up and take advantage of them.

Transforming your life requires two things:

1. Knowledge of how to change

2. Action that initiates the change you want

If you are struggling in any area of your life, this is your solution. Learn how to change and then take action and start making the change.

Learning How to Change

This is the easy part because so much information about the law of attraction is readily available today, just waiting for you to grab it. The bookstores are full of it. The web is overflowing with it. If information was all it took to create the life of your dreams, the world would be full of happy people.

But information alone is not enough!

I’ve found that the problem is seldom that clients don’t have enough information… usually it is quite the opposite, they have so much information that they don’t know where to start. They suffer from overload. They are so worried about the process that they get distracted from their original goals.

Has this ever happened to you?

Success will come when you release your need to master some secret technique and instead focus on the actions that will move you toward your desired outcome. Once you forget about trying to become ‘good’ at the law of attraction, or becoming good at manifesting, once you let go…

… that’s when the magic happens. That is when you will see your reality beginning to align with your desires.

It’s a process, and the process only works when you leave it alone. Remember, a watched pot never boils!

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

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The message in this week’s law of attraction video is a simple one: You are in control of your direction in life.

I love it when Esther and Abraham talk about trying to paddle upstream. I’ve been guilty of this myself, and every time that I notice my resistance to the flow of life and I stop and change my thinking, things turn around pretty quickly.

Sure there are lots of things that can distract you from your desires, and you can find yourself resisting the very changes that you want to manifest… but in the end, you will find that you, and you alone, are the one that chooses your path.

This is key to manifesting your desires with the law of attraction. Stop resisting your own efforts!

You resist for two main reasons – either you fear the coming change or you aren’t fully committed to the desire you are trying to manifest and you are hanging on to your old familiar ways.

In either case, as soon as you recognize the problem, you can take steps to correct it and get back on track.

You control your own stream of manifesting, and your power comes from being aligned with your desires and being in the flow, not from resisting them or allowing yourself to be distracted by all that stuff that is ‘upstream’.

Sometimes you will look back upstream and see all those missed opportunities in your life, all those wonderful chances that you let slip by, and you desperately want to go back and do it again. This is resisting.

There are many more opportunities to manifest your desires downstream! Downstream is the whole universe just waiting for you to step forward and claim what you want.

Set your sights on your biggest, grandest dream and never look back!

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

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Life is funny! So are many of our efforts with the law of attraction. I found this fantastic Abraham-Hicks video clip over on YouTube, and once I stopped laughing, I knew that I had to share it with you here:

I told you! I have always loved the humor in Abraham-Hicks messages. They have a way of getting us to see through the madness that we create around ourselves, and to take ourselves a little less seriously. They cause us to step back and realize how simple life is supposed to be and how naturally we can live our lives in harmony with our grandest desires.

You can do the same, right now, simply by choosing to see the humor in your own life, by choosing to see how silly some of your antics look from the outside.

It is all about your perspective.

Change your perspective – change your life!

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

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Not really, manifesting your desires is the most natural thing in the world. Follow the steps in this video and start creating your own manifesting magic!

There is really nothing hard about this whole process. Time and time again the principles contained within the law of attraction have helped transform lives and yours is no different!

The key is to actually apply the principles! It is not good enough to read a book or watch a DVD and get excited for a day or two. You have to DECIDE that you want to change, and then go out and BE the change that you want to create.

Ghandi said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.”

It starts within YOU.

Once you decide the direction you want your life to head in you can step onto the path that will lead you there. But you can’t start until you DECIDE to.

You can want change, you can wish for change, you can even have a burning desire for change, but until you make that decision, and until you put the full force of your intention behind it, you will remain where you are.

So go ahead, make today the day that you decide that your dreams matter, that your future is too important to leave to chance. Decide to take control of your life.

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

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This week’s law of attraction video is about your perspective on life.

Life has many challenges, there is no doubt about that, the question is…

Will you let life make you bitter?

Or will you let life make you BETTER?

What do you do when life throws challenges your way? Do you whine and complain? Do you give up? Do you quit?

How’s that working for you?

The truth is that life is full of challenges. They come in all shapes and sizes.

Sometimes life seems unfair. Sometimes life seems hard… But that’s only one perspective, it’s only one way of looking at things. If you want to be truly happy in life you must find a way to be happy in spite of your challenges.

Don’t worry, it is not as hard as it sounds.

Just ask yourself, “Am I bigger than this challenge? Am I willing to give up my happiness for a chance to whine and complain?”

Then go out and act happy.

Whatever you are going through right now in your life is just a challenge. You can choose to let it keep you down or you can choose to succeed in spite of it.

The choice is yours, but no matter what you decide, you can be assured that there are more challenges waiting for you around the corner.

So you can choose to be bitter about whatever life handed you… or you can choose to let your challenges make you better. A better person, a better spouse, a better parent, a better friend, a better employee.

Become the best YOU possible!

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

p.s. Learn to face your challenges! If you need help the Inner Circle of Success is just a click away. The Inner Circle is our members-only self improvement study group and we’d love to have you join us!

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Here is your Sunday law of attraction video. This week, Bob Proctor, one of the stars of The Secret talks about your belief systems.  Listen closely as he describes his own awakening, when he learned that the key thing he had done to turn his life around was simply to change what he believed.

Are your current beliefs helping your move toward your dreams?

Or are they holding you back and preventing you from reaching out and claiming those things that you desire?

The problem for some people is that they believe that they can’t change their beliefs… that beliefs are somehow locked in forever.

Nothing is further from the truth!

Your beliefs are constantly being developed and refined based on how you evaluate your life and your world.

All you need to do is to begin changing the way you look at your life…

and your life begins to change!

In the video, Bob Proctor quotes from Napoleon Hill’s excellent book, Think and Grow Rich, which tells us that we all tend to underestimate our own abilities, while at the same time we overestimate the abilities of those around us.

When you stop doing that, when you stop putting others on a pedestal and instead put YOURSELF on a pedestal, then you unlock your true potential – which is UNLIMITED!

Decide right now that you believe in your self, decide that you believe in your own abilities.

Your life will never be the same!

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

p.s. Changing your beliefs into empowering ones is one of the core lessons that we cover in the Inner Circle of Success.  The Inner Circle is our members-only self improvement study group and we’d love to have you join us!

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