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		<title>Jerry Hicks Dies &#8211; Abraham-Hicks Continuing</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 06:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
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<div id="attachment_1508" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 190px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1508" title="Jerry Hicks" src="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Jerry.jpg" alt="Jerry Hicks" width="180" height="244" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Jerry Hicks has passed on.</p></div>
<p>My heart skipped a beat when I read the little blurb on my computer screen. Jerry Hicks had died? I had to read it twice.</p>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t believe it. My first thought was, &#8220;Oh no, we have lost a wonderful soul, a great thought leader.&#8221;</p>
<p>As one third of Abraham-Hicks, Jerry, along with his wife Esther have spent years traveling the country, spreading their message of hope and inspiration, and sharing with people how the law of attraction can help them get more of what they want in life.</p>
<p>They have touched the lives of millions of people from all over the world.</p>
<p>It turns out that Jerry had been battling cancer, but eventually the disease overtook him and Jerry has now transitioned to the next stage of his journey.</p>
<p>He will be deeply missed!</p>
<p>Esther Hicks posted this message on the Abraham-Hicks blog:</p>
<blockquote><p>Dear, dear Friends,Our sweet Jerry made his transition into Nonphysical last Friday. How sweet the Vortex is feeling to him today!</p>
<p>Jerry said to me when we came together over 30 years ago that given  the difference in our ages that it was likely “that I will cut out on  you early,” to which I replied,<span id="more-1505"></span> “I don’t mind.” His joy of life and  continual new discovery of purpose kept his life feeling fresh and we  shared such joyous eagerness for life.</p>
<p>Over the years, Abraham has consistently insisted that there is no  death. Again and again they have reminded us that there is only life and  more life and more life. It has taken me some time to understand this,  and I honestly must say I have not yet fully come to terms with it, but I  do believe that in what we are calling Jerry’s death he is discovering  the next logical step of life that Abraham has always been talking  about. And at times I am catching a glimpse of the bigness of what Jerry  is feeling and while I am still pretty mad at him for not sticking  around longer to surprise and delight me in all the ways he has been  doing throughout our 30 years together I accept fully that the next  logical step of joyous life for Jerry was to be found in his  re-emergence into Nonphysical.</p>
<p>Since 1985 it has been Jerry and Esther and Abraham and I believe  with everything that I am that that has not changed. I know that Jerry  will continue to be the third powerful point of the triad of Energy that  makes up the Abraham experience and I am certain that his new vantage  point will be, as it has always been, of advantage to us all.</p>
<p>I know for sure that Jerry will help me, in time, release my own  personal resistance to physical death, because I will not be able to  maintain that resistance and also play easily with him. And my desire to  continue not only my Abraham experience but also my Jerry experience I  am certain he will be the catalyst to help me do what Abraham has been  trying to help us all do all along.</p>
<p>Once again, Jerry is out there leading the way for me. But the  difference this time is that I must find the way. I am not there yet,  but it is my absolute promise to myself that I will find the way,  because it is the most natural thing in the world to do and because  Jerry has provided for me the reason to do it.</p>
<p>I am eager about what is ahead and while I cannot begin to explain or  even imagine the details of how it is all going to play out, I am  certain that it will be fun.</p>
<p>I am such a fortunate girl, to have been able to play with Jerry and  Abraham and all of you for so many wonderful years and I am so eager to  continue doing more of the same for many more years to come. I feel  certain right now that not only has nothing gone wrong, but things are  going especially right. It will be different, for sure, but it will also  be very, very good.</p>
<p>I’m feeling such love for you all, and for Abraham and most of all  for Jerry. And as I have said to him a thousand or more times through  the years, “Well isn’t life just a kick in the pants?”</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Love,<br />
Esther</p></blockquote>
<p>You can read more and also find an appreciation page where you can leave comments for Esther <a href="http://www.abe-blog.com/" target="_blank">here.</a></p>
<p>Jerry&#8217;s passing touched me, I always admired him. He seemed bright, inquisitive, and articulate, and next to Esther, Jerry Hicks was tops at explaining the principles of the law of attraction.</p>
<p>You know what I remember the most about Jerry? That he always seemed happy. He was always smiling, always radiating the love and pride that he felt about Esther. It was a beautiful thing.</p>
<p>I will miss Jerry. Losing him is almost like losing a dear friend. Donna and I have been reading and listening to Abraham-Hicks stuff for quite a few years now. We were even fortunate enough to see them live on one of their stops in our state.</p>
<p>I think the reason I connect with Jerry so much is that, like myself, he was a seeker. I hope that on this next stage of his journey he finds some of the answers he has been looking for.</p>
<p>Although, I suspect that whatever awaits us after our time here is finished, will only lead us deeper and deeper into the mystery of life.</p>
<p>Farewell Jerry!</p>
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		<title>Personal Development Author Steve Pavlina Leaving Facebook</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Jan 2011 13:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Crawford</dc:creator>
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<p>Why would a popular personal development blogger and author suddenly up and leave the biggest social site on the planet? I was more than a little surprised when I read that Steve Pavlina was quitting Facebook. At a time when people and businesses are flocking to the social media giant in record numbers, why would Steve walk away?</p>
<p>At first I thought it had to be some sort of publicity stunt, but as I read his post I began to relate to many of the issues he brings up because I know first hand how frustrating Facebook can be.</p>
<p>That wasn&#8217;t what surprised me about Steve&#8217;s post. Facebook is filled with spammers and hackers, and as you become bigger on the site, you attract more and more of those types of problems.</p>
<p>What surprised me was <span id="more-1095"></span>the tone of his writing.  I expected a quick, &#8216;it&#8217;s not working for me, but hey, this is what I&#8217;m doing now&#8230;&#8217; sort of post. What I found was much different, much darker than the usual Steve Pavlina post.</p>
<p>According to <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2011/01/leaving-facebook/" target="_blank">Steve&#8217;s blog post about leaving Facebook</a>, he just got tired of the hassles involved in maintaining a presence on the site. For him, the problems and annoyances of using the site began outweighing the benefits.</p>
<p>Steve writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I dislike the way certain features on Facebook are designed and  implemented. They may work okay for most users, but they aren’t a good  match for someone in my shoes. Over time I felt like the system was  becoming increasingly abusive in the way it treats me as a user, largely  due to what I consider to be serious design flaws.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>He goes on to describe some of the headaches involved with Facebook once your number of friends and fans begins to climb. Spam messages, spam posts on your wall, limited control, and unresponsiveness on the part of Facebook&#8217;s admin are just some of the problems that finally drove him off of the site.</p>
<p>As I said, I can relate to much of what Pavlina wrote about. My numbers are very similar to his and I&#8217;ve experienced many of the same headaches. I&#8217;m sure that thousands of people using the site do too.</p>
<p>And I was just about to go on a rant, telling you all about the problems that I experience on Facebook, how unfair some of the things that they do are, and hoping to suck you into the drama with me&#8230;</p>
<p>But then, as they always do, a better thought came to me.</p>
<p>I asked myself, is going on and on about this going to help ME in any way?</p>
<p>Is it going to help YOU in any way?</p>
<p>And the answer of course is no.</p>
<p>The truth is that using a site like Facebook is a decision that each of us makes, based upon what we get out of it. I respect Steve for his decision. For me, Facebook is an opportunity to connect with like minded people from all around the world, and I&#8217;m willing to put up with some annoyances&#8230; simply because the benefits are so enormous.</p>
<p>You see I understand that it is their house, their playground. If you don&#8217;t like the rules, you don&#8217;t have to play there. That&#8217;s fine. We all make decisions like that in every area of our lives, all the time.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s a good thing. It is empowering to assert yourself and not settle for things that you don&#8217;t want.</p>
<p>What is not empowering though, is getting sucked into the blame game. A little later in his post, Steve continues his tirade,</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;As a programmer myself, I can’t fathom that it would take much technical  and design effort to address these issues, and Facebook is flooded with  complaints from users begging them to fix these headaches. From my  perspective as a Facebook user with a very active personal page and fan  page, I can’t help but get the impression that Facebook deliberately  wants to make some basic admin tasks (like blocking spammers) difficult  or impossible in order to compel you to spend more time on the site.  There doesn’t seem to be any other logical reason for these glaring  design flaws that I can comprehend, other than pure incompetence, and  based on their success in other areas, it seems more likely that these  choices are deliberate.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Whew! The words, &#8216;bitter breakup&#8217; come to mind!</p>
<p>Life will give you many opportunities to move along your chosen path, and many times you have to choose between the low road and the high road. Both roads eventually lead you to your ultimate destination, but one brings inner peace and happiness with it, the other&#8230; doesn&#8217;t!</p>
<p>Choose wisely!</p>
<p>Peace,</p>
<p><img title="Bob" src="../wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sig-150x73.jpg" alt="Bob" width="105" height="51" /></p>
<p><strong>Bob Crawford</strong><br />
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		<title>James Arthur Ray Arrested, Charged with Manslaughter in Sedona Sweat Lodge Deaths</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 14:04:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Crawford</dc:creator>
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<p>James Arthur Ray was arrested yesterday and charged with 3 counts of manslaughter in connection with the sweat lodge deaths that occurred at a spiritual retreat back in October. Three people died and many others suffered various degrees of distress during a sweat lodge ceremony that took place near the end of a James Ray event in Sedona, AZ.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve shared several postings about this story as important developments took place and watched as this bizarre tragedy unfolded. But I found myself having mixed reactions to the news of James Ray&#8217;s arrest.</p>
<p>Much like some readers, I am happy that the legal system is moving forward, taking action, and trying to solve this difficult situation. The victims and their families deserve nothing less.</p>
<p>But at the same time <span id="more-476"></span>I can&#8217;t help but to feel sorry for James Ray. I&#8217;ve never attended a James Ray workshop or event, but I have developed a respect for the man and his teachings. What he espouses is very much in line with my own work &#8211; which makes it difficult to understand how he ended up in this situation.</p>
<p>My biggest question, and one that many others share, is this: Did James live and act in harmony with what he teaches? In other words, he&#8217;s been talking the talk, but did he walk the walk? It&#8217;s one thing to talk and teach about personal power and responsibility and another to actually live that way.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t want to get caught up in the legal issues of the case, there will be enough of that all over the web and other media, but I do think that it is important for each of us to pay attention to this tragedy because there is a lesson in here that can help us avoid similar situations in our own lives.</p>
<p>Taken by itself the incident seems to be a case of misplaced personal responsibility, of not knowing your own limits and not knowing when to get out. People make mistakes in judgment every day, and sometimes it costs them dearly.</p>
<p>But is that the case here? There are too many unanswered questions, too many discrepancies between accounts from survivors and from James Ray. Too many past incidents.</p>
<p>You can read the details of his arrest here: <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/spiritual-leader-james-ray-arrested-sweat-lodge-deaths" target="_blank">http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/spiritual-leader-james-ray-arrested-sweat-lodge-deaths/</a></p>
<p>What do you think?</p>
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		<title>James Arthur Ray Breaks Silence on Sweat Lodge Deaths and Sedona Tragedy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 15:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Crawford</dc:creator>
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<p>James Arthur Ray, the leader of the retreat that ended in the tragic sweat lodge deaths of three people last October, has finally broken his silence about what happened.</p>
<p>This is the first time James has spoken publicly about the tragedy.</p>
<p>In an exclusive interview that appears on New York magazine&#8217;s website, James Ray is questioned about his actions that night and his response to the events of that evening.</p>
<p>The interview was done over the phone, and James Ray was assisted by his lawyers during the call. James was willing to answer most of the interviewer&#8217;s questions, but his lawyers didn&#8217;t let Mr. Ray answer a couple of questions and instead <span id="more-460"></span>referred people to the two white papers that James Ray&#8217;s company, JRI, (James Ray International), released detailing the results of their own investigation into the sweat lodge deaths.</p>
<p>You can read the entire interview here: <a href="http://nymag.com/news/features/63259/" target="_blank">http://nymag.com/news/features/63259/</a></p>
<p>You can also read the two white papers his lawyers mentioned here: <a href="http://jamesray.com/sedona/" target="_blank">http://jamesray.com/sedona/</a> This page on James&#8217; site summarizes the white papers, and a link to the original documents can be found at the bottom of that page.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to hear your thoughts and comments about this interview. Did James open up? or is he holding back? What do you think of the differences between what James Arthur Ray says, and the published reports of retreat attendees and JRI staffers?</p>
<p>There are still lots of unanswered questions.</p>
<p>Peace,</p>
<p><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-43 alignnone" title="Bob" src="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sig-150x73.jpg" alt="Bob" width="150" height="73" /></p>
<p><strong>Bob Crawford</strong><br />
<em><strong>Success Coach, Speaker,<br />
Creator of Growing Your SELF!</strong></em></p>
<p>p.s. Here are quick links to previous posts about James Arthur Ray and the events in Sedona:</p>
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<h3><a rel="bookmark" href="../2009/11/05/james-arthur-ray-sweat-lodge-deaths-news-updates/">James Arthur Ray – Sweat Lodge Deaths – News Updates</a></h3>
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<h3><a rel="bookmark" href="../2009/10/29/james-arthur-ray-cancels-seminars-in-wake-of-sweat-lodge-deaths-in-sedona/">James Arthur Ray Cancels Seminars In Wake of Sweat Lodge  Deaths In Sedona</a></h3>
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		<title>How to Plan for Success in 2010 &#8211; Your Invitation to a Free Call</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Dec 2009 19:15:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Crawford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you ready to make 2010 YOUR BEST year ever? Are you ready to throw away the excuses and begin living life on your terms? Then keep reading because I&#8217;d like to invite you to join me on a free call where I&#8217;ll help you lay out a plan to make next year, 2010, the [...]]]></description>
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<p>Are you ready to make 2010 YOUR BEST year ever?</p>
<p>Are you ready to throw away the excuses and begin living life on your terms?</p>
<p>Then keep reading because I&#8217;d like to invite you to join me on a free call where I&#8217;ll help you lay out a plan to make next year, 2010, the best year of your life.</p>
<p>I know that 2009 might have been a rough year&#8230; you might have had challenges&#8230; you might have had struggles&#8230; you might even have had tremendous setbacks or losses&#8230; I know that many folks fall one or more of those categories.</p>
<p>But I also know that if you want to turn it around, if you want to create better results in 2010, all you need to do is plan for success!</p>
<p>No matter what your results were last year&#8230; you can do better this year!</p>
<p>But hold on!</p>
<p>Not only can you do better &#8211; you can take your life from where you are now and completely reshape it in any form or manner you desire! You can move yourself INTO the life you dream of!</p>
<p>All you have to do is<span id="more-415"></span> COMMIT to creating those things that are important to you.</p>
<p>How do you do that?</p>
<p>It is simple&#8230; You plan for success. You develop and follow an action strategy that focuses on achieving what you want. And you follow through!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve made the first step of your journey incredibly simple for you&#8230;</p>
<p>Just dial in Tuesday night, December 29th, and join me on a very special call where I will share with you a powerful 5-step plan that will help you get on track to making 2010 a banner year in your life.</p>
<p>Click here: <a href="http://www.bobcrawfordonline.com/holidaygreeting.html" target="_blank">http://www.bobcrawfordonline.com/holidaygreeting.html</a> to get all the details.</p>
<p>This is a free call, not a thinly-disguised sales pitch, just my way of saying thank you to all of my clients, students, readers and listeners.</p>
<p>I have some very special guests joining us on the call, plus we&#8217;ll have some fun as we talk about ways to explode your manifesting ability&#8230; allowing you to begin creating success and making your dreams come true in 2010.</p>
<p>Click here now: <a href="http://www.bobcrawfordonline.com/holidaygreeting.html" target="_blank">http://www.bobcrawfordonline.com/holidaygreeting.html</a> to reserve your spot on this life changing call.</p>
<p>&#8216;See&#8217; you there!</p>
<p>Peace,</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-43" title="Bob" src="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sig-150x73.jpg" alt="Bob" width="150" height="73" /></p>
<p>p.s. Be sure that you have paper and pencil handy for the call&#8230; you&#8217;ll need it to create YOUR plan to succeed!</p>
<p>p.p.s. Don&#8217;t forget to bring your <em>biggest </em>dream with you to the call too! You know the one I mean, the one you wish you had the courage to pursue&#8230; the dream you keep locked away in your heart out of fear! Don&#8217;t give up on your dream! If you want to give something up, give up regrets instead! This is the year, my friend, the year when you will look back and say, &#8220;I did it!&#8221; Go here now, sign up for the call and then mark it on your calendar!</p>
<p>p.p.p.s. Remember, lives will change this year. Dreams will come true. Desires will be manifested. Wealth will be accumulated. Happiness, joy, and peace of mind will be experienced. The only question is&#8230; will it be YOUR life that changes?</p>
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		<title>Spy Photo Surfaces Revealing Contents of Growing Your SELF Course</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 01:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Crawford</dc:creator>
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<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t believe it! Who would do such a thing?&#8221;</p>
<p>That was my response when I saw the picture.</p>
<p>This spy photo of the soon-to-be-released <a href="http://growingyourselfcourse.com" target="_blank"><strong>Growing Your SELF! Home Study Course</strong></a> is one of several that mysteriously surfaced in multiple places on the web early this morning.</p>
<p>The picture, showing the previously unrevealed core contents of the much-anticipated manifesting program, must have been taken sometime during the last week.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure how it happened. I believe that the spy, or spies, took the photo using a high-tech telephoto lens from a vantage point across the pond. The pictures appear to have been taken through a window of the self-development lab, which it was discovered, was left open for ventilation during a warm day last week.</p>
<p>Yes, the self-development lab here at Peaceful Spirit has been under extremely tight security while I worked feverishly to put the final pieces of Growing Your SELF! together in time for Friday&#8217;s release date, but the open window somehow escaped our hourly security sweeps.</p>
<p>My chief security officer, a cocker spaniel named Princess, was <span id="more-367"></span>not on duty at the time of the incident due to her recent surgery, but when I told her about the photos she assured me she would get to the bottom of this as soon as she gets her neon pink cast removed!</p>
<p>My investigators are pursuing all available leads, but preliminary evidence found at the scene suggests two theories:</p>
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<li>That the perpetrators were simply over-anxious fans eager to start implementing the powerful self growth process contained within the <strong><a href="http://www.growingyourselfcourse.com" target="_blank">Growing Your SELF! Home Study Course</a></strong>.</li>
<li>Or it could be a case of industrial espionage. There are several well-known self improvement gurus who are nervous about the release of this product because it will effectively put many of them out of a job.</li>
</ol>
<p>In the end it doesn&#8217;t matter much!</p>
<p>On Friday the course goes public and everyone will have a chance to see what all the buzz is about.</p>
<p>Lots of people have already taken advantage of the pre-launch fun and received several valuable reports and videos just for signing up to learn more about this powerful course.</p>
<p>You can too! Just go to <a href="http://www.growingyourselfcourse.com" target="_blank">www.growingyourselfcourse.com</a> and let me know that you are ready to grow! I&#8217;ll get your first pre-launch bonus to you right away!</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t wait, these freebies will disappear once the doors open on Friday!</p>
<p>Peace,<br />
<img class="size-full wp-image-43 alignnone" title="Bob" src="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sig.jpg" alt="Bob" width="152" height="73" /></p>
<p>Bob Crawford<br />
Success Coach, Speaker,<br />
creator of Growing Your SELF!</p>
<p>p.s. I haven&#8217;t even had a chance to tell you about all of the great bonuses that I&#8217;m giving away to everyone who buys a copy of Growing Your SELF!, I&#8217;ll probably write them up and put it in an email, so make sure that you are on the list at <a href="http://www.growingyourselfcourse.com" target="_blank">www.growingyourselfcourse.com</a>.</p>
<p>p.p.s. I can tell you this much &#8211; Growing Your SELF! goes beyond other law of attraction and success courses and focuses on the inner changes that will produce amazing results in your life.</p>
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		<title>James Arthur Ray &#8211; Sweat Lodge Deaths &#8211; News Updates</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:56:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Crawford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There have been several new developments in the James Arthur Ray sweat lodge death investigation since my last update. Here is a quick look at what&#8217;s happening: Survivor Stories First, several attendees have come forward and publicly shared their version of what transpired inside the sweat lodge on that fateful day.  Beverly Bunn is one [...]]]></description>
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<p>There have been several new developments in the <a href="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/tag/james-arthur-ray/" target="_blank">James Arthur Ray</a> sweat lodge death investigation since my last update. Here is a quick look at what&#8217;s happening:</p>
<p><strong>Survivor Stories</strong></p>
<p>First, several attendees have come forward and publicly shared their version of what transpired inside the sweat lodge on that fateful day.  Beverly Bunn is one of those attendees. During the retreat Beverly was roommates with Kirby Brown, one of the three people who died from their injuries. Beverly appeared on <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/OnCallPlus/arizona-sweat-lodge-survivor-james-arthur-ray-abandoned/story?id=8897573" target="_blank">ABC&#8217;s Good Morning America</a> to share her story. You can also read her account in an <a href="http://www.azcentral.com/news/articles/2009/10/21/20091021sweatlodgedeaths21-ON.html" target="_blank">AP story here</a>.</p>
<p>Beverly claims that James was unconcerned when people started getting sick. She also claims that when the crisis occurred her attempts to help were <span id="more-341"></span>rebuffed by James Ray staff members.</p>
<p>&#8220;I told them about 10 times, &#8216;I know CPR, I know CPR,&#8217;&#8221; she said. &#8220;They kept pulling me away and pulling me away.&#8221;</p>
<p>Beverly also spoke about James Ray&#8217;s response to the tragedy, saying that James &#8216;abandoned&#8217; the participants the night of the tragedy, and that they awoke the following morning to find a note from a James Ray staffer that James was in meditation. That, she says, was the last they heard from James Ray.</p>
<hr /><strong>Lawsuits Begin</strong></p>
<p>Second, as expected the lawsuits have begun. Two were filed this week, one by a victim&#8217;s family and one by a survivor. You can read about it on the channel 12 website <a href="http://www.azcentral.com/12news/news/articles/2009/10/30/20091030sweatlodgesuit1030-ON-CP.html" target="_blank">here</a> and also in an <a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5j4PHcSvMF8pPe_CpIRZejl7OD1vgD9BLOG0O0" target="_blank">AP story about the lawsuits here</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure this is just the beginning, as other attorneys representing victims and survivors are said to be gathering evidence in preparation for similar suits.</p>
<hr /><strong>Money Problems?</strong></p>
<p>It looks like a long road ahead for James Arthur Ray. I don&#8217;t know how deep his pockets are, but it appears he is going to be experiencing a cash flow problem very quickly.</p>
<p>Last week, Ray&#8217;s book publisher Hyperion Books announced that it was <a href="http://www.azcentral.com/news/articles/2009/10/27/20091027sweatlodgedeaths27-ON.html" target="_blank">delaying the November release of two of James Ray&#8217;s books</a>. Although the publisher wouldn&#8217;t comment on the reason for the delay, it is obvious that they want no part of this scandal, and will delay the release until they see how things turn out.</p>
<p>I also shared with you in an earlier post that <a href="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/2009/10/29/james-arthur-ray-cancels-seminars-in-wake-of-sweat-lodge-deaths-in-sedona/" target="_blank">James Arthur Ray canceled all his remaining events for 2009</a>. That&#8217;s going to hurt!</p>
<p>The announcement that James was canceling his events came shortly after the Green Valley Hotel in Las Vegas canceled one of James&#8217; upcoming &#8216;Quantum Leap&#8217; events that was scheduled there. The hotel notified all attendees via email that their reservations and the event itself had been canceled.  You can read the Green Valley Hotel cancels James Arthur Ray event story <a href="http://www.anorak.co.uk/229126/media/james-arthur-ray-cancels-event-as-sweat-lodge-deaths-bite.html" target="_blank">here</a>. (My thanks to Bonnie, a reader who gave me a heads up on the hotel story.)</p>
<p>Now, according to a <a href="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/laland/2009/11/selfhelp-guru-james-arthur-ray-lists-beverly-hills-house.html" target="_blank">Los Angeles Times report</a>, James has put his Beverly Hills mansion up for sale.</p>
<p>The mansion, which he bought for $4 million in March is listed for sale at $5,495,000.</p>
<hr /><strong>Life Lessons</strong></p>
<p>This saga will continue unfolding and I&#8217;ll keep posting news as I hear about it, but every story I read about this tragedy reminds me that I, and I alone, am responsible for my growth. As a teacher, it also reminds me that I am responsible for the influence that I exert on others.</p>
<p>You and I spend a lot of time talking about influence, both here on this blog and over on the <a href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/Bob-Crawford" target="_blank">Growing Your SELF! radio show</a>, but usually we are talking about the amount of influence that we allow others to have on us. I always stress that it is your choice to allow someone else&#8217;s thoughts or opinions effect your decisions and actions.</p>
<p>But it is also important to be aware of the influence you are putting out towards others. Your intentions may be good, and you may have the other person&#8217;s best interests at heart, but that doesn&#8217;t mean that your version of reality is better for them than their own.</p>
<p>Just something for you to think about as you go through your day.</p>
<p>Thanks for reading, and be sure to leave a comment below!</p>
<p>Peace,</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-43" title="Bob" src="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sig.jpg" alt="Bob" width="152" height="73" /></p>
<p>p.s. There are exciting things coming soon. The Growing Your SELF home study course is almost wrapped up and ready for release. I&#8217;ll keep you posted.</p>
<p>p.p.s. Be sure not to miss any of the great resources, self growth tips and more available in each issue of the Peaceful Spirit newsletter.  Now includes a free copy of my latest law of attraction ebook. <a href="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/newsletter/" target="_blank">Click here to get yours today!</a></p>
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		<title>Suze Orman Shares Secret to Happiness on Oprah Show</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 02:10:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Crawford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you know the secret to finding happiness? If you do&#8230; then you are probably a relatively happy person most of the time. If you don&#8217;t&#8230; then you might still be struggling and complaining, and you might even feel miserable most of the time. Would you believe me if I told you that the choice [...]]]></description>
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<p>Do you know the secret to finding happiness?</p>
<p>If you do&#8230; then you are probably a relatively happy person most of the time.</p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t&#8230; then you might still be struggling and complaining, and you might even feel miserable most of the time.</p>
<p>Would you believe me if I told you that the choice is always yours?</p>
<p>That you get to choose whether to be happy or not?</p>
<p>I was watching the Oprah show today with Donna and Princess when I heard one of the best formulas for happiness that I&#8217;ve heard in a long time.</p>
<p>It made me sit up and listen.</p>
<p>Suze Orman, bestselling author and financial guru,  was one of <a href="http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20091029-tows-celebrity-first-job/8" target="_blank">Oprah&#8217;s guests today</a> and during her interview she said,<span id="more-322"></span></p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;When you can make the average GREAT, your dreams can become a reality.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Wow!</p>
<p>That is powerful.</p>
<p>You might feel that your life is &#8216;average&#8217; and that your dreams are so far away that you will never be able to reach them.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s a common feeling when you are first beginning to make changes in your life.</p>
<p>You might even think that your &#8216;happiness&#8217; will only show up <em>after </em>you achieve your dreams.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s not how it works.</p>
<p>In reality, your dreams show up <em>after </em>you choose to be happy right now.</p>
<p>You see, one of the reasons that you might be struggling to reach your dreams is because you are too negative about your life right now. You might not think you are being overly negative, but if you examine your thoughts and feelings you may discover otherwise.</p>
<p>Too much negativity prevents you from reaching your dreams because:</p>
<ul>
<li>You can&#8217;t focus on your dreams and take advantage of opportunities to move forward if you are too busy whining and complaining about how bad things are.</li>
<li>You can&#8217;t maintain a sense of hope and optimism about your future if you are are too busy feeling sorry for yourself and putting yourself down all day long.</li>
<li>You can&#8217;t make empowered decisions if you are hiding from the truth.</li>
</ul>
<p>Take a hard look at your life right now. Look at your attitudes and mindset. Look at where you are placing your attention and focus.</p>
<p>If you are focused on all the things that are wrong with your life you really can&#8217;t be surprised that you are unhappy. Happiness is not about your circumstances or your problems. Happiness is about how you <em>feel </em>about those circumstances and problems.</p>
<p>Your life may seem &#8216;average&#8217;, but average compared to what?</p>
<p>Your dreams are anything but average, right?</p>
<p>Your dreams of a GREAT life for yourself and your loved ones are just waiting for you to take action and move towards them.</p>
<p>But that can seem hard to do that when you are frustrated and unhappy with your situation, I know&#8230; I&#8217;ve been there.</p>
<p>The key to making your dreams a reality, as Suze Orman said on Oprah today, is to make the average GREAT, in other words, you have to take what you have now and accept it and embrace it.</p>
<p>How do you do that?</p>
<ul>
<li>Where ever you are, what ever you are doing, you should do it the best that you can.</li>
<li>Whatever situation you find yourself in make the most of it.</li>
<li>Vow to succeed in spite of your past mistakes, in spite of your challenges, in spite of your fears.</li>
</ul>
<p>It is important to remember that choosing to be happy right now does not mean that you have to be happy with the circumstances of your life or that you have to like the challenges or problems you have  in your life right now.</p>
<p>It does mean that you have to accept them.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s all.</p>
<p>Accept them.</p>
<p>Stop fighting and resisting and giving your energy to all those things that you don&#8217;t want anyway!</p>
<p>Choose instead to be the best YOU that you can be right now.</p>
<p>Think about it:</p>
<p>What will it take to bring your dreams into reality?</p>
<p>What will it take to make tomorrow GREAT?</p>
<p>Can you really expect to manifest your desires by being &#8216;average&#8217; today?</p>
<p>Can you honestly expect to be happy tomorrow if you don&#8217;t change how you feel today?</p>
<p>Do you see how this works? Being happy is a choice. Reaching your dreams is a choice.</p>
<p>Choose well!</p>
<p>Peace,</p>
<p><img class="size-full wp-image-43 alignnone" title="Bob" src="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sig.jpg" alt="Bob" width="152" height="73" /></p>
<p>p.s. I&#8217;d love to hear what happiness means to you and how happiness affects your ability to reach your dreams! Why not leave a comment below and share your thoughts with us? Thanks!</p>
<p>p.p.s.  Speaking of achieving your dreams, have you downloaded your free ebook yet? <strong>31 Ways to Supercharge Your Manifesting Ability</strong> is packed with ideas that you can use right away to begin creating positive, meaningful changes in your life. Get your free copy at <a href="http://www.freelawofattractionreport.com" target="_blank">www.FreeLawOfAttractionReport.com</a></p>
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		<title>James Arthur Ray Cancels Seminars In Wake of Sweat Lodge Deaths In Sedona</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 00:16:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bob Crawford</dc:creator>
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<p>James Arthur Ray announced today that he is canceling all of his remaining seminars and engagements for the rest of 2009. The announcement comes in the wake of the three tragic deaths that occurred during a sweat lodge ceremony that also left 19 people hospitalized. The sweat lodge ceremony was the culmination of a spiritual retreat led by James Ray in Sedona, Arizona.</p>
<p>The announcement, posted today, (October 29, 2009), on his website at <a href="http://jamesray.com/" target="_blank">www.jamesray.com</a>, and in a duplicate message posted on the <a href="http://blog.jamesray.com/2009/10/important-update-regarding-upcoming.html" target="_blank">James Arthur Ray blog</a>, states that:<span id="more-315"></span></p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;&#8230;I&#8217;m postponing all the events I had planned for the remainder of 2009. These events will be rescheduled as soon as possible in 2010—once the essential work that must be done on the Sedona tragedy has been completed.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<p>The work James Ray is referring to is getting to the bottom of the deaths and illnesses and discovering just what happened inside that sweat lodge.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;In the days following the terrible accident, I struggled to respond in the right way. This is the most emotionally wrenching situation I&#8217;ve ever faced, and it&#8217;s now clear I must dedicate all of my physical and emotional energies to helping bring some sort of closure to this matter. That means helping the authorities and the families get to the bottom of what happened.</em></p>
<p><em> I&#8217;m committed to devoting all of my time, for as long as it takes, to achieve this goal.</em></p>
<p><em>The lives of the families impacted by the Sedona tragedy have been changed forever. These families deserve to have the questions raised by the tragedy answered as quickly and authoritatively as possible. That is the goal I&#8217;m dedicated to achieving.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<p>This is a 180 degree turn around for the self help teacher who was running seminars and carrying on business as usual immediately following the sweat lodge deaths. In a <a href="http://blog.jamesray.com/2009/10/regarding-recent-events-in-sedona.html" target="_blank">blog post on October 20, 2009</a>, James spoke about the &#8216;heat&#8217; he was receiving for his decision to keep working, but that</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;I have chosen to continue with my work. It&#8217;s too important not to. One of the lessons I teach is that you have to confront and embrace adversity and learn and grow from it. I promise you I am doing a lot of learning and growing. I have taken heat for that decision, but if I chose to lock myself in my home, I am sure I would be criticized for hiding and not practicing what I preach.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;ve spent some time reading various blogs and media reports about the incident and it was clear that some people seemed to support his decision to keep working and to keep running seminars and others seemed appalled that he could even think about running another seminar so soon after the tragic events in Sedona.</p>
<p>Evidently the pressure to stop became too great and resulted in today&#8217;s announcement that James will be canceling the remainder of his 2009 seminars.</p>
<p>In my opinion, this is the only right thing to do. There are so many unanswered questions about this tragedy and many of James Arthur Ray&#8217;s actions following the fiasco have appeared slightly less than honorable. Hopefully, he will cooperate with authorities and provide some of those answers that he claims to be looking for.</p>
<p>Yes, this might be a career ending event for James, only time will tell. I&#8217;m sure he is scared and I&#8217;m sure he has more than a few lawyers &#8216;advising&#8217; him on what to do.</p>
<p>But come on!</p>
<p>If embracing adversity is what you preach, then stand up and take responsibility. Running seminars or not running seminars is not the issue&#8230; frankly, it doesn&#8217;t matter to me either way. The issue is communicating and cooperating with the authorities and families of the victims to get to the bottom of this.</p>
<p>Stay tuned for updates as I get them.</p>
<p>Peace,</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-43" title="Bob" src="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sig.jpg" alt="Bob" width="152" height="73" /></p>
<p>p.s. Be sure to grab your free copy of <strong>31 Ways to Supercharge Your Manifesting Ability!</strong> at <a href="http://www.freelawofattractionreport.com" target="_blank">www.freelawofattractionreport.com</a> It&#8217;s packed with ways that you can begin changing the results you are getting, right now!</p>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Crawford</dc:creator>
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<p>Here is the latest info on the James Arthur Ray sweat lodge death investigation. I know that this tragedy and its aftermath strike close to home for many readers, so I&#8217;ll keep you updated as new information comes out.</p>
<p>One of the survivors of the sweat lodge, who passed out and spent four days in the hospital, is speaking out about her ordeal. The story in the Arizona Sun relates Sidney Spencer&#8217;s experience at the sweat lodge and sheds a little light on what was actually going on inside the lodge. You can read the story <a href="http://www.azcentral.com/arizonarepublic/news/articles/2009/10/21/20091021sweatlodgeaccount1021.html" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<p>In another story on the Anderson Cooper 360 blog, a CNN video report reveals that there was similar trouble last year at the same James Arthur Ray event. <a href="http://ac360.blogs.cnn.com/2009/10/21/video-sweat-lodge-deaths-latest/" target="_blank">Click here to watch the video</a>.</p>
<p>It appears that an attendee of last year&#8217;s retreat was ready to come forward and report that about 20 people got sick at last year&#8217;s sweat lodge ceremony, but changed her mind about appearing on camera at the last minute, saying <span id="more-310"></span>that she was being pressured by people still loyal to James Ray, and that she was confused and conflicted.</p>
<p>Who isn&#8217;t?</p>
<p>These tragic deaths and injuries are almost beyond comprehension.</p>
<p>But apparently this isn&#8217;t the first time that James Arthur Ray has had trouble related to his seminars. There have been several stories published recently detailing some other incidents, including a suicide, that happened at events James was running. Here is one of the stories about those incidents from the <a href="http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/mystic_past_is_guru_some_rZkrxu8pPw7WGOHiKCA3uI" target="_blank">New York Post</a>.</p>
<p>Will James Arthur Ray survive the backlash of these deaths?</p>
<p>At the moment James is still maintaining his schedule of seminars and talks, and business as usual. In fact, you can even book your spot at next years <a href="http://jamesray.com/events/spiritual-warrior.php" target="_blank">Spiritual Warrior retreat</a> in Sedona, Arizona. Just $9695 per person.</p>
<p>Hmmmm.</p>
<p>I find myself thinking about some other spiritual leaders and wondering what their reaction would be if these deaths had occurred during one of their events. Would they still be planning and accepting registrations for next years event?</p>
<p>Or would they stand up and do the right thing?</p>
<p>Or what if this happened at an event that I was leading? Would I continue on? Or would I shift gears and focus my energy on cooperating with authorities to try to discover what went wrong?</p>
<p>Would I stand up and do the right thing?</p>
<p>Would you?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll keep you posted as I learn more!</p>
<p>Peace,</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-43" title="Bob" src="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sig.jpg" alt="Bob" width="152" height="73" /></p>
<p>p.s. To learn the true principles that can make a real difference in your life grab your free copy of my latest ebook, &#8220;31 Ways to Supercharge Your Manifesting Ability!&#8221;.  Yours free at <a href="http://www.freelawofattractionreport.com" target="_blank">www.freelawofattractionreport.com</a>.</p>
<p>p.p.s. Previous posts about James Ray and the sweat lodge deaths can be found <a href="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/2009/10/13/james-arthur-ray-spiritual-retreat-turns-deadly/" target="_blank">here </a>and <a href="http://bobcrawfordonline.com/growingyourself/2009/10/18/update-on-james-arthur-ray-sweat-lodge-death-tragedy/" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
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