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How To Understand the Law of Attraction and Get Exactly What You Want

Bob Crawford — Mon, 28 Feb 2011 14:23:17 +0000

How to understand the law of attraction.

Understanding the Law of Attraction

The law of attraction is a powerful concept that can help you radically change your life, but learning how to apply it and actually attract your desires can be challenging.

There is a lot of conflicting advice out there, some of which can be downright misleading. Here is an easy way to get exactly what you want in life by applying this universal law.

The law of attraction is about two things: Your perspective and your objective.

Your Perspective
Your perspective is the way that you look at the world around you, it is about your experience. But here is a funny thing about your perspective – it can change. More importantly, YOU can change it to suit your needs. You see, no two people have the same experience, even if they walk side by side down a street. One person may notice one thing and the other may notice something entirely different.

What you see depends upon many things – your mood, your interests, what has been going on around you and in your life recently, even the opinions of your friends and family… lots of things affect the way you look at the world.

One of the basic building blocks of the law of attraction is that you must change your perspective, you must change the way that you look at the world, so that what you see matches what you want. This isn’t as hard as it sounds. What it means is that you have to stop looking at all the things standing between where you are now and where you want to be, and start looking at the opportunities

The key thing to remember here is that your perspective is flexible and can change.

Your Objective
Your objective is the thing that you want, or your desires. You have to be really, really specific about what you want in order to get the results that will bring you there. If you have fuzzy goals, you will get fuzzy results. You also have to be clear about the reasons ‘why’ you want to achieve each particular goal on your list.

Be sure that you want your goals for yourself and not to please someone else. Your true attraction power or manifesting ability lies in your passion to change your life. The more passionate you are, the better. Nothing dilutes your ability to attract things into your life more than going after a goal that you don’t really want.

Getting What You Want
Master these two things, your perspective and your objective, and your life will change. If you are clear about them, you will begin to understand the law of attraction and how it will help you get exactly what you want in your life.

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Law of Attraction Key: Stop Keeping Score!

Bob Crawford — Sun, 27 Jun 2010 18:07:45 +0000

Law of attraction key: Stop counting and start living!

In the last post, I shared a law of attraction video from Michael Losier, who talked about setting goals with the law of attraction. One of the things he said struck a chord with me, and with several readers as well. He said we tend to ‘keep score’, which distracts us from our original desire.

This is important. If you are busy keeping score, if you are always counting to see how close to your goal you are, then guess what?

You are slowing your own progress because you are no longer focused on your goal. Now you are focused on that area of lack that exists where your goal will eventually go.

As with most things related to the law of attraction, this seems to be a paradox, it seems to be an impossible task.

But the letting go of your desires so that they can manifest is, in fact, a natural way to live. It is much more stressful to be constantly checking to see if you have those ten new clients that you want, than it is to simply move towards those new clients isn’t it?

When an author sits down to write a 1,000 word article or a 50,000 word book, he or she doesn’t count each word along the way. Sure, they might check once in a while, but not all the time. If they did, they wouldn’t get any writing done. And they don’t just stop writing the instant that they hit 1,000 or 50,000 words either, the story they are telling may flow beyond those limits.

How often in your life have you found success when you stopped counting, stopped keeping score, and just focused on doing the thing that moves you forward? A lot I bet!

It happens to us all. The difficulty comes because we like keeping score, we like knowing just how far we have left. But when you keep your attention on the gap between your desires and your reality, the gap only grows bigger.

Let go of your dreams and live as if they are already real!

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

Sunday Law of Attraction Video: Michael Losier – Does Goal Setting Help or Hurt?

Bob Crawford — Sun, 27 Jun 2010 17:13:05 +0000

One of the big questions around the law of attraction is whether goal setting helps you or gets in your way as you manifest your desires. Michael Losier talks about this in this short video.

You can see that it is easy to get sidetracked when you begin talking about your goals. It can seem hard to let go of your desires when you are busy ‘counting’ and seeing how close you are to your goal.

But don’t give up on goal setting just yet.

Every desire of yours is in fact a goal. And a goal, by its very definition is something that you have not attained yet, something that you want, but that you don’t yet possess.

But the law of attraction teaches us that we should not focus on those things that we don’t have, that we shouldn’t focus on the areas of lack in our life.

So what are we to do?

Well, as Michael said in the video, goals are good for defining and clarifying our desires, but once you set a goal you must let go of it. To be in synch with the law of attraction you must live and breath as if you already possess the thing you seek.

Do that and you will find yourself reaching your goals with a lot less effort than you dreamed possible!

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

Law of Attraction Success Comes From Taking Action

Bob Crawford — Fri, 25 Jun 2010 02:04:18 +0000

The law of attraction doesn't work without action!

The law of attraction provides a powerful way to live life on your terms – if you are willing to apply the principles that it contains on a consistent and persistent basis.

How can you be absolutely certain that you will attract the success you desire? How can you manifest or create the life and the lifestyle you want?

By taking action!

Taking action is the only way to reach the goals you set for yourself. You can study the law of attraction all day long, but until you step up and make the first move, nothing is going to happen. Nothing!

The solution is easy…

Take some action, no matter how small, each and every day, that moves you in the direction of your dreams and desires.

And don’t fool yourself! There is no substitution for action.

If you desire something, if you want something, you have to reach out and claim it.

You!

You have to make the first move.

Action is what sets achievers apart from dreamers. Action is what creates the momentum that carries you toward your dreams.

Even small actions can have great rewards, and sometimes they are the most productive.

Get out there and take action right now! Right this minute! If you apply only one of the tips that you read here, make it this one.

Action truly is the foundation from which you will build your dreams.

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

What Do You Want to BE When You Grow Up?

Bob Crawford — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:20:32 +0000

Are you ready to reach those BIG dreams?

“What do you want to be when you grow up?”

Remember when you were little and adults were constantly asking you that question? I bet you had an answer for them, didn’t you? I bet you had BIG DREAMS! Oh, your answer might have changed from time to time, as your interests came and went, but you probably had an answer. In that moment, when they were asking you, you KNEW what you wanted to be.

And what you wanted to be was directly related to what you liked to do and the dreams you had. You might have dreamed of becoming a ballerina, or of blazing a trail through uncharted territory, or of raising a family, or of piloting a spaceship to a new planet… the sky was the limit, wasn’t it?

Back then you had the freedom to dream any dream, but you didn’t have the resources to make those dreams real. You couldn’t, you were just a child. All you could do was dream and pretend.

But now, now you are grown up. So now I ask you the same question, just framed a little differently: “What do you want to BE, now that you are a grown up?”

You see, those same dreams, those same wild fantasies that fueled your imagination back then, are still within you. They still want to come out and play! But now you have something that you didn’t have back then! Now you can make those dreams a reality by tapping into your manifesting power and creating changes in your current life.

You can begin shaping your life, you can begin moving in the direction of those big dreams and goals!

How?

Start by opening your mind to the possibilities for growth that exist right now in your life. They are there, just waiting for you to take advantage of them.

Be brave. Be bold. Learn to ask for the help you need.

But most importantly, be committed to living your dream!

Peace,

Bob Crawford
Your Success Coach,
and creator of Growing Your SELF!

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